A Definitive Guide on How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring

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Purchasing the perfect engagement ring for the most special woman in your life is not easy, there’s a lot of pressure on the man’s part considering that this engagement ring is not just a mere ring but a symbol of his truest affection and inclination to take your relationship to the next level. This could be very bewildering since there are too many concepts and designs available out there and you could not be so sure if the ring you have selected will match the taste of your fiancée. There are also several factors to be considered in your budget, her ring size, her style, and preferences. See? Buying the perfect one can simply get overwhelming. But worry no more, because there is a definitive guide from on how to choose the perfect engagement ring to symbolize your interminable love and affection.

A Definitive Guide on How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring:

Anatomy of a Ring:

To know better which type of ring set is perfect for your fiancée, let us understand first the different parts of a ring.


Also known as the setting, this part holds the center stone in the ring, made up of the prongs and the piece to which they’re attached to.


Sometimes referred to aband. This usually has the same width all around, while shank, on the other hand, can have different widths with upper and lower shanks. This part commonly wears down due to friction from rubbing against hard objects.

Center stone

The main stone in a solitaire, usually an engagement ring likely has a diamond as its center stone.


The top two sides of the ring.

Side stones

Stones that are on either side of the center stone.


A piece of metal that holds the stone in place. They are not opaque which lets you see more of the stone. Solitaire diamonds usually have 4-6 prongs. The more prongs you have the more secure and fixed your stone is.


The hind part of the rings, that fits over the top of the finger. Rings with embedded large stones often features a hollow gallery so that there’s no room for the stone and your finger

Girdle –

The edge or narrow band between the upper and lower facets of a gemstone.

 Right Size

One of the most important things to know, of course, is the right ring size. Standard sizes are given as millimeters (mm) based on the inner circumference of the ring. Ring sizes are a little bit complicated when it comes to regional variations. And since ring sizes are crucial in choosing a perfect ring, ring size charts and other measuring tools were made available but probably the easiest ring sizing method is to go straight to the jeweler. By collaborating with your jeweler, you don’t need to worry about any measurement method as they have accurate and specific ways to ensure proper fitting.

So your next problem is to get the most accurate ring size of your soon-to-be-bride. You can ask her directly or you can measure it yourself. But if you are planning a surprise proposal, you obviously don’t like to ruin the surprise by asking your partner’s ring size. So the best thing to do is to connive with your close friends or family that will serve as an insider to get your partners’ ring size.

Understanding the 4Cs


The cut is the most important C in choosing a perfect fiery and sparkling ring. Every diamond regardless of its shape gets its elegance and brilliance by cutting and polishing the diamond facets to allow the maximum amount of light that enters through it. The cut doesn’t necessarily pertain to shape rather it refers to angles and proportions of the stone. The right cut of a diamond is manifested if it radiates light from one facet to another and projects it through the top of the stone. And this is the very reason why a diamond appears to be sparkling all the time.


As opposed to what we know, diamonds exist in a variety of colors. The Gemological Institute of America (GIA) grades diamond as D (colorless) to Z (light yellow). Colorless diamonds are the rarest and most expensive of all diamonds as this allows light to pass through easily resulting in a dispersion of light and reflection of a rainbow. On the other hand, your jeweler might discuss the birthmarks known as “inclusions”, these are other minerals or tiny fractures in the diamond.


The lesser the imperfections a diamond has, the clearer and more expensive the diamond will be. Clarity is determined when viewed under 10 power (10x) magnification. It is measured using a scale, from Flawless to Imperfect 3.


Carat is the most objective of all the 4 C’s, this is the weight of the diamond. As its carat weight increases so do its rarity and thus its price. However, jewelers have certain measures to make the diamond appear larger than its carat weight thus making it appear bigger.

Diamond Shape

Diamonds, archetypal and timeless, are considered to be the most popular kind of center gem, as well as the most durable and lasting. And it comes with different shapes as listed below.

Diamond Shape

Round diamonds –

This is the most popular diamond shape, representing approximately 75% of all the diamonds sold. It is generally outstanding to all other shapes due to the proper reflection of light that maximizes the potential brightness.

Princess diamonds –

The most popular fancy diamond shape, specifically to enlarged rings. It is also a good choice for their flexibility in working in most of the ring styles.

Emerald cut diamonds –

Unique due to step cuts and pavilion and its large open table instead of the sparkle of a brilliant-cut, this type of cut produce the thehalf-of-mirrors effect.

Asscher cut diamonds

A forerunner to the emerald cut, but it has a square with larger step facets, a higher crown, and a similar table.

Marquise diamond

Football-shaped diamond, with a long and narrow size which also creates an illusion of greater size.

Radiant cut diamond –

Known to be the first rectangular cut to have a complete brilliant facet to both the crown and pavilion, giving a vibrant and lively diamond.

Oval diamonds –

With a modified brilliant-cut, this is a virtually round cut diamond. One of its advantages is its elongated form which adds up to the actual size of the diamond.

Pear-shaped diamonds –

A combination of rounds and marquise shape with a tapered point on one end. This possesses excellent and very good symmetry.

Heart shape diamonds

Probably the most unmistakable symbol for love, popular in solitaire pendants as well as in rings.

Cushion cut diamond

A combination of both squares cut with rounded corners much seems like a pillow. One of the classic cuts of all time, which was popular 200 years ago.

Choose the Setting

The choice of engagement ring setting is extremely important. It’s the first decision you should make in the process as it determines how securely the stones will be held in place, how visible will they be, and how easy the ring will be to clean and care for. Here are the common settings for you to choose from.

Choose the Setting

Prong Setting

This is the most classic ring setting of all time. The term prong refers to a little metal claw that grips the diamond tightly, securing it in place. This comes in variety, it can be rounded, pointed, flat or V-shaped. A single ring usually contains either four or six prongs, the more the prong a ring has, the more secure the diamond will be. This setting elevates the stone, making it more prominent and noticeable. However, a high set of prongs often snugs with objects and clothing, the low setting is ideal for a person with an active lifestyle. 

Prong Setting

Tiffany Setting

It was developed by Tiffany & Co., with a specific solitaire six-prong settings to maximize the light return of the diamond. It is distinguished primarily by the “knife-edge” of its shaft and the unique design of its prongs. This setting amplifies light reflection and brilliance due to raised diamond. And just like the prong setting, it often snugs with objects and clothing, the low setting is ideal for a person with an active lifestyle.

 Prong Setting

Bezel Setting

The second most popular ring setting due to its modern appearance and suitability for a person with an active lifestyle is the bezel setting. Unlike with prongs, this ring setting secures the diamond by encircling the entire diamond, or cornerstone, with a thin metal rim custom-made. However, the bezel setting achieves lesser light reflection and brilliance as compared with prong and tiffany settings. 

Tiffany Setting

Tension Setting

Its name is derived from the tension of the metal band that secures the diamond in place, giving it an appearance of diamond suspending on two sides of the shank. Tension-style settings feature a comparable look of diamond suspension but are less expensive and complicated to make. It has a unique appearance but though extremely rare, a stone could fall out of a tension setting if struck by an impressive outside force.

Tension Setting

Channel Setting

This ring setting secures a set of smaller diamonds in a row into the band of the ring. Since there are no prongs, this setting is also a good option for a snag-free and secure design.

Channel Setting

Pave Setting

Pronounced “pa-vay,” comes from the French word “to pave,” as in paved with diamonds. By closely setting small diamonds together with minimal visibility of the tiny metal beads or prongs holding the stones in place, the effect is one of continuous sparkle. It also magnifies the ring’s overall brilliance but sizing and resizing can be quite difficult if the ring is pave set around the full band.

Pave Setting

Flush Setting

Referred to as the gypsy setting, secures the diamond into a drilled hole in the band of the ring. Then the jeweler hammers the metal around the diamond to hold it in place, making it not suitable for soft stones. Stone is highly protected and secure from the ring band. This provides the highest security, making it suitable for a person with an active lifestyle.

Flush Setting

Antique Setting

Intended to fit for an aspecific period or era of jewelry fashion. Often characterized by its intricate designs, highly decorated manner and delicate metalwork. This can be crafted to match a time period or personal style preference. If you are choosing an antique vintage setting, extra time will be needed to ensure that the stone is secured and well-maintained

With this guide from culet.co.nz, we hope you have chosen an engagement ring that will suit her perfectly. Be more confident about your plans and be ready to drop into one knee and say your lines as you propose to her. Ultimately, the ring that will fit perfectly through his fingers is the ring that is given with love. Regardless of your decision, put your heart and soul into picking the perfect diamond shape, and she’ll definitely know and will be proud to show off the ring you picked just for her. 

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